Giving Thanks

This year, as my writing business grew by leaps and bounds, I found myself feeling grateful for the generosity and guidance of my editors. I decided that rather than sending holiday cards in December, I’d send Thanksgiving cards to say thanks for the business. An editor friend told me that it feels like a leap of faith for an editor to take a chance on a new writer. Who’s to say they’ll make deadline, or that they’ll turn in work that meets the needs of their publication and the specific instructions for the assignment? I’m thankful to those editors who not only gave me a chance, but came to me for repeat business. And I have to say it just feels good telling them so.

It’s both important and smart business to acknowledge that trust and to solidify the existing working relationship. It doesn’t take a lot of time to do, and it likely won’t get too lost in the shuffle with the end-of-year landslide of mail. I think this also works well if timed as a New Year’s note - a lovely way to brighten an editor or colleague’s day during that inevitable post-holiday slump.

Next year, I plan to also send notes to fellow writers, colleagues who went the extra mile to send a lead or insights into a market they write for. I love that there is a vast sea of writers who are generous with their virtual Rolodexes, contrary to the classic image of the writer who must live in fear of idea theft.

Networking is essential to entrepreneurs, and while this is a valuable form of networking, it’s also a terrific way to do the right thing and spread a little gratitude and joy. Plus, it’s simple enough to write, address, and stamp thank you cards while the kids sit nearby, duking it out with the cold virus du jour.

Is there anything about your writing life you’d like to give thanks for? What are you waiting for? Share your stories in the comment section.

Karen Mary Lynch November 21, 2006 19:13 pm

I’m thankful that I was able to call myself a stay at home mom while building a freelance career this year, not pulling in a big income (yet), because my husband is hardworking and generous in spirit.

Meagan Francis November 21, 2006 22:40 pm

Great post Toni! I’m grateful for the amazing, generous community of freelancers I “know” online. And I’m so thankful that I get to do what I love for a living.

Ann D November 29, 2006 20:19 pm

I’m grateful that I’m not feeling depressed anymore (hurray!), that I’ve got so many writer friends and so many non-writer friends who put up with me during my worst writer-funks, that I’ve got a great new space to do writing, that I’m not having to work so hard right now that I’m hyperventilating, that Dr. Debt is not knocking on my door, that I feel this new itch and drive to try types of writing that had never even occurred to me before — and that writing continues to be fun.

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